Are you not winning? Oh! That's because you ain't getting it done or you're just afraid of the circumstances. Well tell you what!? It's time you get it done regardless of the circumstances.
For you to be successful you need to be passionate, dedicated, determined and willing to climb the highest tree or fight against one of the most feared. By fighting I don't mean violence or literally fighting, I mean going against some of your loved one's will and those you fear the most. Get the job done regardless of the circumstances. I know that not always we get what we want but it is in your best interest to make sure you pursue your passion and follow your interests.
Be sure of what you want and you shouldn't be trying to avoid failing because failing is a mistake and mistake can be rectified. For those who fear failure will also fear to try which is what you shouldn't do. Success is ambiguous, everybody has his or her own ideal success in mind and as for dreams and visions, those who are not dedicated, passionate and determined to pursue their own might be likely work torwards building someone else's dream or vision.
Have the positive attitude for positive results.